“You need a plan to build a house. To build a life, it is even more important to have a plan or goal.” – Zig Ziglar For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him, Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish. (Luke 14:28-30 KJV) Shall we continue where I left off...
I believe God has implanted in us the ability to thrive. Yes, we have difficult times and seasons in life but it all has to do with our mindset. I know the message of survival is all around us. We hear it in song, we read in books, we hear on the news, it’s posted on social networks---survive to live! So we have to change our mindset from surviving to thriving--one day at a time! If we pay attention we have thriving everyday hero's all around us. I have a brother who temporarily lost his sight and is fighting to get it back, but I don’t see him just surviving; I see him thriving. When I talk to him, I am not invited to a pity party, he isn’t quitting life…he is responding to life with a thriving mentality. I have a brother-in-law who was diagnosed with cancer. I never hear him talking about the diagnosis, he is thriving and working on the mission that God gave him in life. Read books from authors who are telling you their story of overcoming and thriving in life. It may be buried in the news but look for the story of triumph from people who have survived but are also thriving. And above all, chose to believe what God has said in His word about you. There are so many examples in our Bibles of people who in spite of harsh conditions thrived. Jesus being our great example. It’s your snapshot…so you have a choice to enter THE THRIVING ZONE…you can be a survivor or a thriver! Remember, what we do around here…if we don’t like something in our snapshot , we change it! I want to take a couple of days to talk about something that caught my attention on yesterday. It came from a book that I read. It came from a conversation with someone I had. It came from old memories stored in my heart. Let's begin with the book I was reading. The name of the book was I DECLARE by Joel Osteen. There was a chapter in in the book (Day Twenty-Five) where he addressed the topic of "the surviving and thriving" mindset! He encouraged the reader to say: I DECLARE I will not just survive; I will thrive! I will prosper despite every difficulty that may come my way.” (There was more but I encourage you to read the book.)
My point is that I never realized how many people, including myself, have lived life in survival mode. Yet, we don't have to. Why? Once again, it's our snapshot and we have two choices: We can either survive or thrive! As for me, you would have thought I was one of the participants on the reality show, SURVIVOR! I wasn't a huge fan of the show but the concept is one most have adapted in life. It's all about survival! My life at some points has mainly been about surviving. And if I heard a song about surviving, I sang it, LOUD AND PROUD! I did not recognize that my survival years made no room for growth. Okay, so you grow to an extent but you never maximize your full potential. You become stationary and content with where you are in life because you survived a (or some) traumatic ordeal in your life. Meaning: you become stuck, you don’t move from that complacent mode of self-protective. When you are in survival mode there is a constant battle within which comes from those difficult times in our lives, whether it is from abuse, sickness, mistreatment, loss, or anything that causes you a great deal of pain. And, we can become accustomed to thinking we are justified by our mentality. But God doesn't want us to live there. According to Psalm 55:18, we have to realize that God has delivered our soul in peace from the battle within... Let's continue this topic later...
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Life is… Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it. Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it. Life is luck, make it. Life is too precious, do not destroy it. Life is life, fight for it. -Mother Theresa Risk
To laugh is to risk appearing the fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To place our ideas, our dreams, before a crowd is to risk their loss. To love is to risk not being loved in return. To live is to risk dying. To hope is to risk despair. To try is to risk failure. Risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love...live. Chained by his certitude, he is a slave; he has forfeited freedom. -author unknown "Failing to step out in faith is to risk missing real life." -Neil Anderson "What a privilege for us to be able to walk by faith in God Himself, armed with all the promises of His word." -Neil Anderson I thought this would be a good snapshot of the heart moment, think about this:
If you want to know how to live your life. Just think about what you want people to say about you after you die and live backwards. –Michael Josephson Don't make life about keeping up with the Jones' or chasing after power or material possessions. Jesus said, “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.” There is so much more to life! Enjoy your family, friends, and others whom God has allowed in your life. It really does matter what these people think of you so live your life backwards! Now ask yourself, how am I livin'? I don't know about you but I have some work to do. Let's make our lives count! Since our family lives so close to Washington DC one of my favorite things to do is visit museums. I can visit them multiple times and learn something new about the subject and life every time. For instance, I visited Portrait & Art Museum. While I enjoyed the side of the museum which displayed the portraits, I found myself really drawn to the sculptures which is different for me. I loved that there was such a variety of materials used for each sculpture and found it most interesting.
I felt I learned several things while touring the museum yet one of my most valuable lessons was recognizing more than ever that in life everyone has a different point of view (perspective)—we all see life in different colors shapes, and shades. We all use different techniques and resources to reach our destiny and we are all known for something (whether good or bad). But the main thing is, we must learn to appreciate the gifts of other people. What may be little and insignificant in your eyes—may be grand and great in someone else’s. And, that's okay. Celebrate someone else today even if their sculpture doesn't look like yours! |
AuthorMy name is Linder A. Hunn. I am a wife, mother, grandmother, publisher and author. God is first in my life and all else is secondary. I love helping people. Archives
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