Who knew choosing or eliminating one or two words in one sentence could be life-changing?
I didn't.
Those words resignated deep in my soul when they were spoken to me. I allowed them to not fall on deaf ears but immeditely went to work with them.
It was the best thing I could of ever done for myself.
It changed my perception and my perception changed my reality of myself.
My life began to have color, flavor and love. It utimately made me want to participate in my own life.
How about you? Are you ready for a fresh perspective that can change your life?
​Well, just go to work...

Sometimes people treat you less than the wonderful human being that you are. Believe it or not, it's up to you not to allow their negative behavior to control your life any longer!!!
If we teach people to treat us the way they do...today is a good day to teach them a new lesson. Teach them to treat you with respect, honor and dignity because that is what you deserve.
Have that "HEY SELFIE" talk and start right now...

#EmotionalAbuseIsReal #EnoughIsEnough
#Snapshotsofawomansheart #Selflove
#Emotionalhealing #LoveYourselfAnyway

i found this photo on Facebook but had to share because it reminds me of so many women I know. We just have to keep it moving!!!

Just because no one has been fortunate enough to
realize what a gold mine you are,
Doesn't mean you shine any less.

Just Because no one has been smart enough to figure out
that you can't be topped,
Doesn't stop you from being the best.

Just because no one has come along to share your life,
Doesn't mean that day isn't coming.

Just because no one has made this race worthwhile,
Doesn't give you permission to stop running.

Just because no one has realized how much of an
awesome woman you are,
Doesn't mean they can affect your femininity.

Just because no one has shown up who can love you on your level,
Doesn't mean you have to sink to theirs.

Just because you deserve the very best there is,
Doesn't mean that life is always fair.

Just because God is still preparing your king,
Doesn't mean that you're not already a Queen.

Just because your situation doesn't seem to be progressing right now,
Doesn't mean you need to change a thing.

Keep shining, keep running, keep hoping, and keep praying.
Keep being exactly what you already are.  COMPLETE!!

Keep being an AWESOME woman!

Sometimes there are good, loving, honest people who just want to help others in life; whether it is a mother, a spouse, a friend, a boss, a pastor or a relative..  Whatever your role may be there may come a time that your love for the person meanings letting go.  But, what does that mean?  

I found a poem that I believe helps make sense of letting go.  And, it seems there is an art to this hard task for most people.  Consider the following:



Stop enabling
The art of letting go

To “let go” does not mean stop caring
It means I can’t do it for someone else

To let go is not to cut myself off…
It’s the realization I can’t control another

To let go is not to enable…
But to allow learning from natural consequences

To let go is to admit powerlessness…
Which meant the outcome is not in my hands

To let go” is not to try to change or blame another…
It’s to make the most of myself

To let go is not to care for…
But to care about

To “let go” is not to fix…
But to be supportive

To “let go” is not to judge…
But to allow another to be a human being 

To “let go” is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes…
But to allow others to affect their own destinies

To “let go” is not to be protective…
But to permit another to face reality

To “let go” is not to nag, scold or argue…
But instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them!

To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires…
But to take each day as it comes
And cherish myself in it!

To “let go” is not to regret the past…
But to grow and live for the future

To “let go” is to fear less…
And love more!

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